Monday, January 2, 2012

Found it!

After 18 years of not knowing where it was, my dear friend discovered her clitoris tonight. It was a big moment for her, and I was really proud.
Now, some people might laugh at that and say, "what the hell, a young woman didn't know where her own clitoris was?". They can shut the fuck up.
Half of you men don't know how to find our g-spots, and until I was 17, I was convinced doggy style and anal sex were one in the same.

With sexual health and the human body, no matter what age we are, we're always learning new information. That's why I think before we can decide what we do and don't like, we have to try everything out. For example, 69 sounded like a wicked fun, exciting and raunchy act. I tried it, and I don't really care for it. And this might sound weird as fuck, but I learned that I get pleasure when a guy grabs my neck during sex.
Only God can judge me.

I mean, you can't say you hate blowjobs if you've never given one, and you can't say you don't like swallowing if you've never done it. Like... girl, how do you know?
The only instance where I think it's totally alright to never try is anal. Dear Lord, that's just... ugh, so painful. Not even fun (for me, at least). I don't care what you say; my asshole is not an erogenous zone, okay?
My neck is, though. Touch my neck and I will have a very difficult time NOT fucking you.

When it comes to sexual acts, and our anatomy, I don't believe we should ever jump to conclusions. What feels good for me doesn't always feel good for someone else, and if you do something and don't like it-- you don't have to do it again! Explore though! Find your clitoris! Make sure you know what the frenulum is! Exploring doesn't hurt! ...most of the time.

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